Love hurts... The better you picture the guy to be, if the guy turns out to be another way... U would be the one that gets hurt... Oh wells... I had thought I really loved the guy I was with... Little did I know that his real self was in total difference with the real him... When my other guy friend asked me this question "Grace, do you still love him.." I said no.. The reason that I told him was that it was very simple.. I had 2 learn this lesson the hard way that I should NEVER EVER enter a relationship without knowing the other person for a long time.. I told him "拿得起，放得下" (If I can take it up, I can put it down easily) I have to learn it now...

There are various after effects of me initiating the break up... There are just so much to list... But I doubt I would bore my readers with it.. All I could say is that God works in a miraculous way...

The main reason that I initiated the broke up was due to my parents disagreements... Den I went through 3 phases.. Should I break up? Am I doing the right thing? I must break up!... It was all these that brought me through.. In a few hours.. God planned for this to happen..

He also planned for another thing to take place.. The healing... He allowed me to speak to different individuals about the situation.. Apart from that, the calling from him to surrender the situation unto him was so clear... But it was a very hard journey... Harder than I ever thought it was...